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t-insomnia
Employer is WA state based, I moved to FL and working remotely.
Spoke to my hr recently.
Employer is small, 25 people, it’s not FMLA eligible, hence they don’t have to provide FMLA.
WA state pays for the Family and medical leave, but I am not eligible because of my move.
I asked my HR about Short term disability insurance , she doesn’t know, but she thinks that this is the same as paid FMLA by WA state, hence I am not eligible.
Their advice is : take all the sick days and PTO once the baby is born (I’ll have 20 work days of PTO at the moment of her birth, 1 month basically). And speak to the CEO, maybe (maybe) he’ll give you what you want.
Unpaid, of course.
I am quite mad and upset, and trying to understand my rights..
I need an advice from you: how much time would you ask CEO to give me?? 3 more months?
My husband unfortunately works for the same company, and they unlikely will let us take a leave together.
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HopeSurro
You could always ask for 3 months and negotiate from there. Most receive 6 full weeks paid short-term disability and take the other 6 as unpaid FMLA.
Good luck!
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babyharry25
I’m in NY and paid family leave isn’t the same as short term disability. Lots of companies have short term disability that covers things like accidents, which isn’t always covered under a family leave plan. Have HR dig deeper not just “think” it’s the same.. best of luck!!
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jmcvey07
your company has an Hr department and a CEO but is not big enough to make you FMLA eligible? That seems odd. That said, you can ask for what you want, but my guess is they will only give you 6-8 weeks total (including your PTO time).
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t-insomnia
@jmcvey07,
hr is just one girl, she is also our compliance specialist. And our boss calls himself a CEO. We’re small startup :)
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jmcvey07
@t-insomnia,
haha okay that makes more sense. I’m sorry you’re stuck in this position but I hope you get the time you need with babe!
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vankamfam
I would ask to take your pto and then 1 more month unpaid
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JPerez83
I'm a teacher in TX, and I do not get maternity leave. I have to use all 15 of my personal days. After that, my pay will be docked, and I will likely not get a check for the rest of my leave. I will be looking into FMLA to see what I can pay on it and what percentage I of my check I can get.
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babymamma94
FMLA doesn’t have anything to do with maternity leave payment. It only secures your spot at your job while you’re on leave. Basically makes it legally impossible for them to fire you during your FMLA period.
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kwes1219
Ugh how awful. If your HR doesn't know about short term disability then your company likely doesn't have a policy or offer it unfortunately. It's also one of those things that you can't get after getting pregnant because they will deny your claim as a preexisting condition.
I would talk to your CEO and see what he could offer.. at the very least 6 weeks partial pay using your PTO bank.. but if he is willing to go for 12 weeks then i would definitely take that! the issue with taking 12 weeks unpaid is if you have insurance through your employer that is not FMLA protected, you may lose your insurance. so that would be something definitely to bring up.
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gummyprenatals
What?! I thought WA had 16 weeks of paid leave available?? Is this different for you because you’re out of state?
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t-insomnia
@gummyprenatals,
yes, because it will be more than a year since I left when she baby is born
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